My Worries about Sexual Performance are Ruining My Life

My name is Tom. I’ll be blogging about how my poor sexual performance is affecting my mood, my relationship with my wife and the way I see myself.

I don’t feel like a real man! But my therapist says that being or not a real man is a thought, an idea, not a feeling. So I guess it is more accurate to say I feel terrible because I think, sometimes, that I am not a real man.

Follow my blog and see how I try to deal with this.

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