My name is Tom. I’ll be blogging about how my poor sexual performance is affecting my mood, my relationship with my wife and the way I see myself.
I don’t feel like a real man! But my therapist says that being or not a real man is a thought, an idea, not a feeling. So I guess it is more accurate to say I feel terrible because I think, sometimes, that I am not a real man.
Follow my blog and see how I try to deal with this.